Something Old, Something New…. Is This Something Right for You?

A series on the history of our wedding traditions from our amazing assistant Bonnie; the truth behind the superstitions!

We all know them; the traditions passed down from our mothers and grandmothers. But where did they come from?

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Probably every bride has heard it…"it’s bad luck for the groom to see the bride before the wedding!" This tradition dates way back to the time of the arranged marriages.  Arranged marriages signified a business deal between the bride’s family and the groom; oh the romance! The idea of keeping the betrothed apart before the wedding was so that the groom wouldn't see his future bride, and find her unattractive. Call off the wedding, and bring shame onto the bride and her family. Thus, the traditional saying “it’s bad luck for the groom to see the bride before the wedding.”  Oh yes, and the veil the bride wears…Its original purpose was to conceal the brides face up until the very last minute when the contract could not be revoked.

Leftover Lemons

         Although the days of arranged marriages are behind us in western culture, most brides still don't want their beloved to see them before the ceremony. Many brides find that this creates an atmosphere of anticipation and excitement. However, there are a growing number of couples who find it more intimate if they are able to see each other before the ceremony. If you do choose to see your groom before the ceremony, you have the opportunity to create a private moment where you see each other for the first time, just the two of you. A new twist is to take “first look” photos; so you can always relive that first moment you saw each other. Another advantage is you can take your formal pictures of the wedding party while everyone looks fresh.  You might just be able to enjoy the appetizers you spent time selecting for your close family and friends.

Bend the Light Photography, first look

Whether you choose to remain a mystery on your wedding day, or share a short moment together before, it is most important that you do what’s best for you and your love.